Brian Copeland’s new solo show “Grandma & Me” is subtitled “An Ode to Single Parents,” and that’s a topic he knows well.
“My sisters and I waited years to clear my grandmother’s stuff out,” Copeland says. “When she passed, it was so emotional for us, because she’s the one who raised us.”
And, as Copeland notes, that was no ordinary feat.
“My mom died when I was 14,” he explains. “There were five of us, and my youngest sister was 1 at the time. When we lost Grandma, she was 85, but it was sudden. She had a stroke and was in the hospital for three days, and then we lost her. So it was super, super emotional for us to clear out her things. My sister found the document from Alameda County that granted her guardianship of the five of us. I looked at that document, and all of a sudden it hit me, the enormity of what it was that she did. Here was this 57-year-old woman with a Jim Crow Birmingham education who had lost her only child, taking on five kids ranging in age from 1 to 14 all by herself.”
Brian Copeland with his grandmother. Sherry Kamhi/courtesy of Brian Copeland.”
Decades later, Copeland would get some sense of what she went through firsthand.
“In 2001, I went through a divorce and I ended up with primary custody of my three,” he recalls. “They were in first grade, fifth grade and seventh grade. Their mom had been doing all the back-to-school stuff and all of the day-to-day things, because I was doing ‘Mornings on 2’ at the time. And if I wasn’t doing that, I was on the road with Aretha Franklin or Smokey Robinson or somebody, or I was home sleeping. Then suddenly when I got primary custody, it was all on me.”
It wasn’t until he was looking at that guardianship document that the connection really clicked for him and became the inspiration for this show.
“What I decided to do with this is to look at the lessons that I learned from what Grandma did during that first year that she had us and the first year that I had my three,” Copeland says. “Because the first year was the toughest year. When Grandma had us, we were all in shock and in horrible pain after losing our mother. And when I had my three, they were in all this pain …
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