‘Sex and the City’: Was Mr. Big Inspired by a Real Person?

Ron Galotti gets his mail at the North Pomfret Post Office January 19, 2005
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hen Candace Bushnell’s book, based on her columns, was turned into a hit HBO show, fans were instantly hooked. The provocative series, Sex and the City, was ahead of its time in a lot of ways. The scenes that played out on-screen, however, actually happened to Bushnell. In fact, the show’s main character, Carrie Bradshaw, was based on the author, and Carrie’s main love interest, Mr. Big, was inspired by a man Bushnell once dated. So, who is the mystery man who inspired such an iconic character? He was a publishing executive.

Who was the inspiration for Mr. Big?

Carrie once said that Mr. Big couldn’t leave New York because Big was like the Chrysler Building; it would be all wrong somewhere else. One would think a character like that couldn’t actually exist in the real world, but a real-life beau of Bushnell’s inspired Mr. Big. Mr. Big was based on Ron Galotti, a powerful publisher who ran in New York’s elite social circles for years before trading it all in for a quieter, simpler life for his family.

Ron Galotti | Paul Hawthorne/Getty Images

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Galotti and Bushnell met in the 1990s and dated for a little more than a year before they called it quits. Galotti, according to The New York Times, was there when Bushnell was first approached to write a book based on her columns. Her columns appeared in The New York Observer, the real-life counterpart to Carrie’s fictional weekly column in The New York Star.

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How similar are the fictional Mr. Big and Ron Galotti?

John James Preston, better known as Mr. Big, may have been a financier, but the man who inspired the character had a completely different career path. Galotti, a Westchester Country raised New Yorker, spent time in the military before he made his way into the world of publishing. According to Harper’s Bazaar, Galotti started his career selling ad space in a small magazine, before he moved on and helped launch Country Living for Hearst. He continued to rise through the ranks, eventually landing at Vogue then GQ. While their career paths were different, the fictional John James Preston and Galotti had a lot in common.

Mr. Big in ‘Sex and the City’ | Richard Corkery/NY Daily News Archive via Getty Images

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Source:: Showbiz Cheat Sheet


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